[ROCm] Fix ROCm build issue caused by REMOVE_ITEM incorrect path (#14534)
### Description
Fix not working REMOVE_ITEM.
`onnxruntime/contrib_ops/rocm/aten_ops/aten_op.cc` is hipyfied from
`onnxruntime/contrib_ops/cuda/aten_ops/aten_op.cc`.
The file correct path is
`${CMAKE_CURRENT_BINARY_DIR}/amdgpu/onnxruntime/contrib_ops/rocm/aten_ops/aten_op.cc`
and it exists in hipyfied source files list
`onnxruntime_rocm_generated_contrib_ops_cc_srcs`.
A better way to fix it: If we don't want to build a file. Add it into
hipify excluded files and will not hipify it.