docs: update TensorRT RTX EP documentation for standalone EP ABI (#28026)
## Summary
Updates the TensorRT RTX Execution Provider documentation to reflect the
transition
to the standalone EP ABI plugin and updated default behavior.
## Changes
- **Deprecation notice:** Added a prominent deprecation notice for the
built-in TensorRT RTX EP,
directing users to the standalone [TensorRT RTX EP
ABI](https://github.com/NVIDIA/TensorRT-RTX-EP-ABI) plugin.
- **Standalone EP ABI usage instructions:** Added C++ code examples
demonstrating the V2
device-based EP API (`RegisterExecutionProviderLibrary`, `GetEpDevices`,
`SessionOptionsAppendExecutionProvider_V2`) for registering and using
the standalone plugin.
- **Build from source:** Split into "Standalone EP ABI Plugin
(Recommended)" and
"Built-in EP (Deprecated)" sections with appropriate links.
- **CUDA Graph default updated:** Updated documentation to reflect that
`enable_cuda_graph`
is now **enabled by default** (`true`). Code examples and
`onnxruntime_perf_test` commands
now show how to *disable* CUDA Graph rather than enable it.
- **onnxruntime_perf_test usage:** Added EP ABI plugin command-line
examples using
`--plugin_eps`, `--plugin_ep_libs`, and `--plugin_ep_options` flags
alongside the
deprecated built-in EP commands for CUDA Graph, EP context generation,
and general
performance testing sections.
- **EP options note:** Clarified that all execution provider options
apply to both
the built-in EP and the standalone EP ABI plugin.
## Motivation
The built-in TensorRT RTX EP is being deprecated in favor of the
standalone open-source
EP ABI plugin. This documentation update ensures users have clear
migration guidance,
up-to-date code examples, and accurate default values.