Reuse T4 for Cuda12.2 training packaging pipeline. (#20244)
### Description
It always has been out of memory in training CUDA 12.2 packaging
pipeline
https://dev.azure.com/aiinfra/Lotus/_build?definitionId=1308&_a=summary
since the PR #19910
I tried other CPU agents for example, D64as_v5(256G memory) and
D32as_v4(128G memory and 256 G SSD temp storage), which are still out of
memory like the below image
But it works on T4, though T4 only has 4 vCPUs, 28G memory and 180G temp
storage, and it takes much more time.
### Motivation and Context
Restore CUDA 12.2 training packaging pipeline first.
More time is needed to investigate the root cause
### Other Clues.
These 2 compilation steps take nearly 6 minutes with Cuda 12.2 on T4
And it runs out of memory on CPU machine. @ajindal1
cuda12.2 on T4
```
2024-03-14T05:39:08.7726865Z [ 90%] Building CUDA object CMakeFiles/onnxruntime_providers_cuda.dir/onnxruntime_src/onnxruntime/contrib_ops/cuda/bert/flash_attention/flash_fwd_split_hdim32_fp16_sm80.cu.o
2024-03-14T05:45:01.3223393Z [ 90%] Building CUDA object CMakeFiles/onnxruntime_providers_cuda.dir/onnxruntime_src/onnxruntime/contrib_ops/cuda/bert/flash_attention/flash_fwd_split_hdim64_bf16_sm80.cu.o
2024-03-14T05:46:07.9218003Z [ 90%] Building CUDA object CMakeFiles/onnxruntime_providers_cuda.dir/onnxruntime_src/onnxruntime/contrib_ops/cuda/bert/flash_attention/flash_fwd_split_hdim96_fp16_sm80.cu.o
2024-03-14T05:52:59.2387051Z [ 90%] Building CUDA object CMakeFiles/onnxruntime_providers_cuda.dir/onnxruntime_src/onnxruntime/contrib_ops/cuda/bert/group_query_attention_impl.cu.o
```
But they could be finished in about one minute with Cuda 11.8 on CPU
```
cuda11.8 on CPU
2024-04-09T11:34:35.0849836Z [ 90%] Building CUDA object CMakeFiles/onnxruntime_providers_cuda.dir/onnxruntime_src/onnxruntime/contrib_ops/cuda/bert/flash_attention/flash_fwd_split_hdim32_fp16_sm80.cu.o
2024-04-09T11:35:53.6648154Z [ 90%] Building CUDA object CMakeFiles/onnxruntime_providers_cuda.dir/onnxruntime_src/onnxruntime/contrib_ops/cuda/bert/flash_attention/flash_fwd_split_hdim64_bf16_sm80.cu.o
cuda11.8 on GPU
024-03-13T12:16:33.4102477Z [ 90%] Building CUDA object CMakeFiles/onnxruntime_providers_cuda.dir/onnxruntime_src/onnxruntime/contrib_ops/cuda/bert/flash_attention/flash_fwd_split_hdim32_fp16_sm80.cu.o
2024-03-13T12:19:58.8268272Z [ 90%] Building CUDA object CMakeFiles/onnxruntime_providers_cuda.dir/onnxruntime_src/onnxruntime/contrib_ops/cuda/bert/flash_attention/flash_fwd_split_hdim64_bf16_sm80.cu.o
```
