[c++] Eliminate dynamic initialization of static Ort::Global<void>::api_ (#25741)
### Description
Delay the call to `OrtGetApiBase()` until the first call to
`Ort::GetApi()` so that `OrtGetApiBase()` is typically called after
dynamic library loading.
### Motivation and Context
When ORT_API_MANUAL_INIT is not defined (which is the default), the
static `Ort::Global<void>::api_` has a dynamic initializer that calls
`OrtGetApiBase()->GetApi(ORT_API_VERSION)` This dynamic initialization
can cause problems when it interacts with other global/static
initialization. On Windows in particular, it can also cause deadlocks
when used in a dynamic library if OrtGetApiBase()->GetApi() attempts to
load any other libraries.
* Replace the templated `Global<void>::api_` with an inline static
initialized to nullptr.
* `Ort::GetApi()` now calls `detail::Global::GetApi()` which calls
`detail::Global::DefaultInit()` if initialization is needed.
* When `ORT_API_MANUAL_INIT` is defined, `DefaultInit()` returns
nullptr, which will eventually cause the program to crash. The callers
have violated the initialization contract by not calling one of the
`Ort::InitApi` overloads.
* When `ORT_API_MANUAL_INIT` is not defined, `DefaultInit()` uses a
function-level static to compute the result of
`OrtGetApiBase()->GetApi(ORT_API_VERSION)` once and return it.
* `Ort::Global<void>` has been replaced with a non-templated type and
moved inside a `detail` namespace. Since the `Global<void>` object was
documented as being used internally, it is believed that these changes
here are non-breaking, as they do not impact a public API. The public
APIs, `Ort::InitApi()` and `Ort::InitApi(const OrtApi*)` remain
unchanged.
* Add `#pragma detect_mismatch` to surface issues with compilation units
that disagree on how ORT_API_MANUAL_INIT is defined. (MSVC only.)
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Co-authored-by: Copilot <175728472+Copilot@users.noreply.github.com>