Fix symbolic shape infer empty value_info (#15842)
### Description
When node output is optional, symbolic shape infer might add an empty
value_info item. Add some checking to avoid this.
### Motivation and Context
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Stable diffusion optimized model reported invalid data type 0 during
inference.
