Improve logging and default affinity mask generation (#13338)
### Description
Fix logging for affinity failures on Linux.
Make `GetCpuCores()` consistently return the number of physical cores.
Use `CpuInfo` library to correctly set affinities for Linux where
supported.
Make windows generate affinity masks as ordinals and convert them to
masks at the setting site.
Allow setting multiple logical processors affinity masks per thread.
We continue to set all logical processors as thread affinity per
physical core.
### Motivation and Context
Error logging on Linux uses `pthread_self()` which does not return
Thread ID.
Fix default affinity mask generation on Windows. The following are the
issues with Windows:
- `GetThreadAffinityMasks()` returns bitmasks, but on other platforms it
returns ordinals generated for the hardware concurrency
- The maximum number of processors supported for requires a mask of
64-bits, but `size_t` type used is not always 64-bit
- The masks returned per physical core may have multiple bits set,
because the mask applies to several logical cores hosted by the physical
core. In the past, customers complained that their threads jump from one
core to another which adversely affects performance. The decision was
made to stay this way.
- 64-bit masks do not allow for logical processors with IDs that are
outside of 0-63 range.