Upgrade ADO pipelines' VS version to the latest (#26056)
### Description
I created a new machine pool with the latest VS version. This PR
upgrades all the ADO pipelines to use this VS version, except for the
CUDA pipelines which are still using CUDA 12.2.
Added code in Windows ARM64 jobs to pin cmake and vcpkg's versions.
Added a powershell script to help setup nodejs on Windows ARM64
machines.
