Update stable diffusion benchmark script (#14759)
Update stable diffusion benchmark script:
(1) Test GPU memory usage
(2) Change diffusers version to 0.13, and add support of PyTorch 2.0
including compile
(3) Add support of xformers
(4) Output result to CSV file
Example to run PyTorch 2.0 with torch.compile:
```
pip3 install numpy --pre torch --force-reinstall --extra-index-url https://download.pytorch.org/whl/nightly/cu117
export TRITON_PTXAS_PATH=/usr/local/cuda-11.7/bin/ptxas
python benchmark.py -e torch -v 1.5 -c 5 -n 1 -b 1 --enable_torch_compile
```
