Block-wise 4b quantization matmul operator change (#18172)
### Description
Replace block-wise 4b quantization implementation
### Motivation and Context
In https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/18101 we have an
augmented block-wise 4b quantization interface and implementation. Here
we use this new implementation in onnxruntime contrib ops
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Co-authored-by: Edward Chen <18449977+edgchen1@users.noreply.github.com>
