[VitisAI] Add processing for sessionOptions.AppendExecutionProvider("VitisAI", options) (#21839)
### Description
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[VitisAI] Add processing for
sessionOptions.AppendExecutionProvider("VitisAI", options)
### Motivation and Context
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Co-authored-by: Zhenze Wang <zhenzew@xilinx.com>