Attention fusion for UNet onnx model export from PyTorch 2.* (#16629)
### Description
Tested with stable diffusion unet models exported by pytorch nightly.
Example to run:
```
cd onnxruntime/python/tools/transformers/
python optimizer.py --input unet.onnx --output unet_fp16.onnx --model_type unet --float16 --opt_level 0
```