remove gsl to make status.h independent from gsl (#17402)
### Description
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Make status.h independent from gsl.
### Motivation and Context
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In the coming new feature external EP API (see the prototype
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/16718), we need to expose
stream in the public header, however, stream is dependent on status.h
which is dependent on gsl. We are seeking a way to decouple stream from
gsl.
From Changming's comment offline, prefast is disabled so all
GSL_SUPPRESS are not taking any effect now. He will handle the warnings
when enable prefast in the future
