FIX: memory leak checker is incompatible with std::stacktrace (#17209)
### Description
When I worked on PR #17173, I didn't notice that
onnxruntime\core\platform\windows\debug_alloc.cc also needs to call
dbghelp functions like SymInitialize. So, if we use vc runtime's
stacktrace functionality, vc runtime will initialize/uninitialize the
dbghelp library independently and vc runtime's stacktrace helper DLLs
get unloaded before our memory leak checker starts get work. Then we
call SymSetOptions, it crashes.
More details:
In VC runtime the C++23 stacktrace functions are implemented on top of
dbgeng.dll. In C:\Program Files\Microsoft Visual
Studio\2022\Enterprise\VC\Tools\MSVC\14.37.32822\crt\src\stl\stacktrace.cpp,
you can see it has:
```
dbgeng = LoadLibraryExW(L"dbgeng.dll", nullptr, LOAD_LIBRARY_SEARCH_SYSTEM32);
```
The dbgeng.dll is a wrapper around dbghelp.dll. It calls SymInitialize
and SymCleanup. dbgeng.dll gets unloaded before our memory leak check
starts to run. In theory we should be able to call SymInitialize again
if the previous user who called SymInitialize has also called
SymCleanup. However, users can use
SymRegisterCallback/SymRegisterCallback64/SymRegisterCallbackW64 to
register callback functions to dbghelp.dll. These callback functions
need to be alive when SymSetOptions(and some other dbghelp APIs) get
called.
### Motivation and Context