[ORT 1.17.0 Release] Cherry pick 1st round (#19243)
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[ORT 1.17.0 Release] Cherry pick 1st round
PR authors please take a look, and let me know if there are any
questions about the changes or approve accordingly.
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Co-authored-by: Xavier Dupré <xadupre@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Yulong Wang <7679871+fs-eire@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Hector Li <hecli@microsoft.com>
Co-authored-by: luoyu-intel <yu.luo@intel.com>
Co-authored-by: kunal-vaishnavi <115581922+kunal-vaishnavi@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Chi Lo <54722500+chilo-ms@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Ye Wang <52801275+wangyems@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Adrian Lizarraga <adlizarraga@microsoft.com>
Co-authored-by: snadampal <87143774+snadampal@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Tianlei Wu <tlwu@microsoft.com>
Co-authored-by: Heflin Stephen Raj <heflinstephen03@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Yifan Li <109183385+yf711@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Yufeng Li <liyufeng1987@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Changming Sun <chasun@microsoft.com>
