fix memory mapping on Windows (#19623)
### Description
<!-- Describe your changes. -->
Windows memory map casts mapped_offset to DWORD directly. It will be
truncated if it is larger than 2^32-1. We need to set high
dwFileOffsetHigh for this case.
### Motivation and Context
<!-- - Why is this change required? What problem does it solve?
- If it fixes an open issue, please link to the issue here. -->
The bug was found from #19450
