cherry picks for 1.23.0 release (#25959)
### Description
Cherry-pick the following PRs:
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/25943
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/25937
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/25917
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/25909
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/25898
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/25897
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/25888
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/25881
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/25830
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/25619
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/25575
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/25572
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/25558
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/25530
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/25474
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/25455
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/25110
Also two dependent PRs for qMoE cpu:
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/25877
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/25822
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