[QDQ] Hookup NNAPI GetCapability/Compile with shared QDQ selectors (#10347)
* add qdqgroup as input for NodeUnit
* minor update
* hookup nnapi_ep
* minor update
* update compiler setting
* Add a simple UT
* Pipeline change to add build minimal extended with NNAPI for Android
* move GetAllNodeUnits to node_unit.h, add UT for NodeUnits, minor updates
* minor updates
* address CR comments
Co-authored-by: gwang0000 <62914304+gwang0000@users.noreply.github.com>