Upgrade wheel to 0.45.1 (#25957)
Currently our macOS wheels use Metadata-Version 2.1
Currently our Windows and Linux wheels use Metadata-Version 2.4
Because they use different versions of the
["wheel"](https://pypi.org/project/wheel/#history) package that is used
for generating the wheel files.
When publishing the macOS wheels to Azure DevOps feed, I got the
following error:
```
ERROR: Failed to upload onnxruntime-1.23.0.dev20250903002-cp310-cp310-macosx_13_0_universal2.whl.
Return code: 1
STDOUT:
Uploading distributions to
https://aiinfra.pkgs.visualstudio.com/PublicPackages/_packaging/ORT-Nightly/pypi
/upload
ERROR InvalidDistribution: Invalid distribution metadata: dynamic introduced
in metadata version 2.2, not 2.1
```
This PR makes them consistent.
