enable lto in Python-CUDA-Packaging Pipline (#20164)
### Description
Except [Python-CUDA-Packaging
pipeline](https://dev.azure.com/aiinfra/Lotus/_build?definitionId=1299&_a=summary),
all windows cuda packaging jobs have been running well now.
After comparison, enable_lto isn't added in the pipeline, which might be
one root cause of the random hang.
### Motivation and Context
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