Add validation for negative position_ids in EmbedLayerNorm (#27573)
### Description
Adds a missing lower-bound validation check for `position_col_index`
(derived from `position_ids` input) in the `EmbedLayerNormalization`
contrib operator. A negative value in `position_ids` could bypass the
existing upper-bound-only check and cause an out-of-bounds heap read
before the `position_embedding` buffer.
### Motivation and Context
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