Fix ROCM's nightly build (#17518)
### Description
PR 15470 updated some C/C++ dependencies. The change caused ROCM EP's
nightly build to fail. see issue
https://github.com/ROCm-Developer-Tools/HIP/issues/2082 for a
background. So, the root cause is HIP compiler has a special requirement
that HIP's include dirs must be used before the operating system's
include folder: /usr/include. HIP adds "-isystem" in front of
"/usr/include". gcc or clang will search the folders added with "-I"
first, then the "-isystem" folder. It works fine as long as we do not
add "-I/usr/include" to the compile commands for *.cu files. It would be wrong if
we already have installed an open source library to /usr and want to use the
prebuilt library from there instead of the current build dir.
### Motivation and Context
