update deepspeed version 0.8.3 (#15415)
### Description
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Update the support deepspeed to 0.8.3 as it's the latest version
### Motivation and Context
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This will fix the error of `Skip modifying optimizer because of
unsupported DeepSpeed version`
Co-authored-by: ruiren <ruiren@microsoft.com>
