All LearningModelSessions created from a common LearningModelDevice should share the same thread pool (#11457)
* Share thread pools between devices
* make tests reuse device
* Change cpu thread pool options for dml sessions to use 1 thread with no spinning
* fix test failure
* Update missing type constraints for dft
* Add comment and rename inference session parameter
* default missing causing inconsistent test behavior
Co-authored-by: Sheil Kumar <sheilk@microsoft.com>