Support xcframework for mac catalyst builds. (#19534)
### Description
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### Motivation and Context
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MAUI on macOS uses mac-catalyst which requires a different native
binary.
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Co-authored-by: rachguo <rachguo@rachguos-Mini.attlocal.net>
Co-authored-by: Scott McKay <skottmckay@gmail.com>
