support user_compute_stream for rocm ep (#19619)
### Description
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According to the pr #19229 supporting cuda EP use external compute
stream, we add support for rocm EP.
And when we testing this feature with torch, we found torch use stream 0
for the default stream, and `torch.cuda.current_stream()` returns `0`
for current stream, but ort treat `0` or `nullptr` as invalid, and reset
has_user_compute_stream to false.
Will remove has_user_compute_stream option in the future.
### Motivation and Context
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The motivation for this pr is that we want to use torch.cuda.graph to
capture ort running kernel, which requires torch and ort are running in
the same stream, so we use this API to set ort's working stream.
