[DML EP] Fix issue with --dml_path build option (#15972)
### Description
DML_PACKAGE_DIR cmake variable is not getting set properly when dml_path
build options is used.
### Motivation and Context
- Why is this change required? What problem does it solve?
It is required for DML Perf dashboard.
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