Enable QNN HTP support for Node (#20576)
### Description
Add support for using Onnx Runtime with Node
### Motivation and Context
Onnx Runtime supports the QNN HTP, but does not support it for Node.js.
This adds baseline support for the Onnx Runtime to be used with Node.
Note it does not update the node packages that are distributed
officially. This simply patches the onnxruntime.dll to allow 'qnn' to be
used as an execution provider.
Testing was done using the existing onnxruntime-node package. The
`onnxruntime.dll` and `onnxruntime_binding.node` were swapped into
`node_modules\onnxruntime-node\bin\napi-v3\win32\arm64` with the newly
built version, then the various QNN dlls and .so files were placed next
to the onnxruntime.dll. Testing was performed on a variety of models and
applications, but the easiest test is to modify the [node quickstart
example](https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime-inference-examples/tree/main/js/quick-start_onnxruntime-node).
