Update Attention operator to support separated Q/K/V inputs (#13410)
### Description
Allow separated Q, K and V inputs to support cross attention:
* Q: [batch_size, sequence_length, hidden_size]
* K: [batch_size, kv_sequence_length, hidden_size]
* V: [batch_size, kv_sequence_length, v_hidden_size]
* Output: [batch_size, sequence_length, v_hidden_size]
To use separated Q/K/V inputs, the input tensor is for query, and two
optional inputs are added for key and value. Weights for input
projection is not included for now, so the MatMul of input projection
shall be done out of Attention operator, but Add bias is included for
performance consideration.