Fix warnings and errors on cpu benchmark (#20967)
Several changes to remove warnings or errors on CPU benchmark and other
benchmarks.
- Phi-3 codes doesn't require auth token, but trust_remote_code flag.
Add "--trust" to enable only trust_remote_code.
- Phi3 models are not working with sdpa and needs to be run with eager
mode.
- Fix CPU io binding error with null device id and element_type
mismatch.
- use_buffer_share only when engine is ort.
