[CoreML] support coreml model cache (#23065)
### Description
Refactor compute plan profiling
Support cache coreml model to speed up session initialization. this is
only support by user provided entry and user responsible to manage the
cache
With the cache, session initialization time can be reduced by 50% or
more:
|model| before| after|
|--|--|--|
|yolo11.onnx| 0.6s|0.1s|
|yolo11-fp16.onnx|1.8s|0.1s|
### Motivation and Context
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Co-authored-by: wejoncy <wejoncy@.com>
Co-authored-by: Scott McKay <skottmckay@gmail.com>
