reduce cuda library binary size (#14555)
### Description
Reduce the cuda library size by:
1. refactoring beam_search_top_k to reduce template instantiation. It
saves ~56MB
2. opt out TopK for type uint*, int8_t and int16_t. It saves ~50MB.
### Motivation and Context
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