fix(ci): nodejs on nuget cuda 13 hangs (#28816)
### Description
Limit CUDA compile concurrency for NodeJS build to 1.
### Motivation and Context
NodeJS is hanging on Nuget CUDA 13 pipeline.
#28736 introduced a hack fix that explicitly limited concurrency for
CUDA compilation for some tasks, but did not apply it to NodeJS. Apply
the same hack to NodeJS.
