Ignore allocator type in ExecutionProviders allocator map. Make default initialization of OrtMemoryInfo more clearly invalid. (#2768)
* Remove allocator type from the key comparison in ExecutionProviders.
Remove usage of DummyArena as it's no longer necessary.
* Fix x86 tests where arena allocator is disabled.
Make initialization of OrtMemoryInfo clearer by adding Invalid enum value.
* Make OrtValueNameIdxMap::MaxIdx more intuitive.