Add compute capacity to trtep engine cache file (#16356)
### Description
Add "_smXX" to trtep engine cache file name, which "sm" stands for
"Streaming Multiprocessor".
> The GPU compute capability version is prefixed with "SM" because
NVIDIA typically improves and updates the SM in each new GPU
architecture.
### Motivation and Context
Github issue: https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/issues/15982
Reduce the chance of misusing incompatible engine cache, when user is
switching GPU devices with different compute capacity
* The prevention can't be 100%, as model size & GPU memory size could be
another factor to make cache incompatible
