Specify the paths of system tools when building Apple framework (#22056)
### Description
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Specify the path of `ar`, `ld` and `libtool` when building apple
framework.
### Motivation and Context
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Sometimes non-system executables will comes before the system-provided
ones. This PR intends to prevent it from happening.