Add a missing header to cuda_common.h (#15489)
### Description
The following three lines are needed before including some cutlass
header files, because cutlass uses "and"/"or" keywords. Generally it
should not be a problem without this header, but nvcc is not strictly
compliant to C++ standard.
```c++
#ifdef __cplusplus
#include <ciso646>
#endif
```
We didn't hit this problem because the above code exists in absl. We
always include absl headers first. However, ABSL recently deleted them!
https://github.com/abseil/abseil-cpp/pull/1246
The cutlass dependency was introduced in #14343 , after we had abseil.
