ONNX Gelu Op in Opset 20 (#19560)
### ONNX Gelu Op in Opset 20
Refactor code to support MSDomain Gelu and ONNX Gelu-opset20 Op
1. Move CPU-GELU implmentation from
`onnxruntime/contrib_ops/cpu/activations.h/cc` to
`onnxruntime/core/providers/cpu/tensor/gelu.h/cc`, as the implementation
for approximate attribute to be 'none'.
2. Dumplicate some logic from
`onnxruntime/contrib_ops/cpu/bert/bias_gelu.cc` to
`onnxruntime/core/providers/cpu/tensor/gelu.h/cc`, as the implementation
for approximate attribute to be 'tanh'.
3. Register ONNX domain Gelu CPU kernel from opset 20 in
`onnxruntime/core/providers/cpu/cpu_execution_provider.cc`.
4. Move `onnxruntime/contrib_ops/cuda/bert/fast_gelu_impl.h/cu` to
`onnxruntime/core/providers/cuda/tensor/gelu_impl.h` and
`onnxruntime/core/providers/cuda/tensor/gelu_approximate_impl.cu`
respectively, as the implementation for approximate attribute to be
'tanh'.
5. Implement the logic for approximate attribute to be 'none' in
`onnxruntime/core/providers/cuda/tensor/gelu_impl.cu`.
6. Register ONNX domain Gelu CUDA kernel from opset 20 in
`onnxruntime/core/providers/cuda/cuda_execution_provider.cc`.
7. ROCM ep related changes.
8. Enrich the tests for ONNX domain Gelu in
`onnxruntime/test/providers/cpu/activation/activation_op_test.cc`.
