[EP ABI] Add documentation for OrtValue and ort_graph_to_proto util (#25411)
### Description
- Adds documentation to state that the data pointer for an `OrtValue`
owned by an `OrtGraph` is stable during the lifetime of the `OrtSession`
that owns the `OrtGraph`.
- Adds documentation to the ort_graph_to_proto.h utils to show how to
create a `onnx::GraphProto` with external initializers that actually
point to in-memory data (same approach used internally within ORT).
### Motivation and Context
Clarification of usage of new graph apis.