[TransposeOptimizer] Support Unsqueeze/Transpose of input consumed by per-axis DQ (#21821)
### Description
Follow-up to: https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/21793
- Support looking past a per-axis DQ to do in-place Unsqueeze/Transpose
of initializers
- Support looking past a per-axis DQ to cancel a Transpose or Squeeze.
### Test models
For all test models, the transpose optimizer pushes a Transpose through
a Mul's input[0]. The Mul's input[1] is optionally unsqueezed and then
transposed.
### I. Test in-place unsqueeze and transpose of per-axis quantized
weight
Original model has input[1] with shape (3,)
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Optimized model has input[1] with shape (1, 3, 1, 1). The initializer
was unsqueezed and transposed in-place.
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### II. Test canceling existing Squeeze before per-axis DQ
Original model has input[1] that is squeezed.
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Optimized model unsqueezed and transposed input[1]. The original squeeze
was removed due to the unsqueeze, leaving only the Transpose.
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### III. Test canceling existing Transpose before per-axis DQ
Original model has input[1] that is transposed.
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Optimized model transposed input[1], thus canceling the existing
transpose.
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### IV. Test QDQ fix-up of Transpose/Unsqueeze for per-axis quantization
Original model has input[1] that can be broadcasted.
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The main transpose optimization loop inserts float32 Unsqueeze and
Transpose after the DQ. The qdq fix-up pass inserts new per-axis Q/DQ
ops after the inserted nodes.
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### Motivation and Context
Enables the TransposeOptimizer to support more models with per-axis QDQ
nodes. Per-axis quantization can improve model accuracy and is used by
EPs like QNN.
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Co-authored-by: Edward Chen <18449977+edgchen1@users.noreply.github.com>