Exclude cudnn 8 DLLs from manylinux package (#21746)
### Description
It is a follow up of https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/21738
to exclude cudnn 8 DLLs since some python packaging pipelines (like
training package) are still using cudnn 8.9 and cuda 11.8.
### Motivation and Context
Size of python package for training pipeline increases a lot due to some
DLLs are added to package:
