Fix issues in TRT model ID generator (#13837)
There are some issues in
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/13015,
1. Model name should be used rather than graph name in the model ID
generator.
2. Hash collision is observed in ID cache, which means different model
may have the same key and thus load same hash id from the cache.
3. For the class and function that generate model id, MetaDef in the
name is not appropriate.
4. Should reuse murmurhash3 rather than copy it over to TRT EP
This PR fixes those issues.