Fix big models exception caused by timm upgrade (#22442)
### Description
Today, stable diffusion stage failed due to there's a upgrade in timm.
controlnet_aux depends on it.
And its latest version limit the timm version less than 0.6.7.
So upgrading controlnet_aux can solve it.
And controlnet_aux uses opencv-python-headless, pin
opencv-python-headless to 4.8.0.74 too.
### Motivation and Context
