update CMAKE_CUDA_ARCHITECTURES for packaging pipelines (#25126)
* Change 90 to 90a. It is because FpA IntB Gemm uses accelerated
features (like WGMMA, TMA and setmaxnreg).
* Change 90 to `90a-real;90a-virtual`. It is because a recent change in
[cuda_configuration.cmake](https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/blob/main/cmake/external/cuda_configuration.cmake)
will replace "90" to "90a-real", and we need explicitly add the virtual
one `90a-virtual` to the list.
Note that our pipelines are still using CUDA 12.2, so it is not able to
add 100 and 120 to the list. We can add it when we upgrade to CUDA 13 in
the future.