[Build] Propagate build option for CUDA minimal to TRT (#20695)
### Description
Extend cuda minimal option to TRT provider, as with TRT 10 no linking to
cuDNN is required anymore
.
Besides that with the new engine dump feature it is also possible to
embed an engine in to an ONNX and not ship a builder lib.
In addition to that this has roughly the same deserialization
time/session setup time that using TRT standalone has.
### Motivation and Context
```
exe_builder_lib\onnxruntime_perf_test.exe -I -e tensorrt -r 5 -i 'trt_engine_cache_enable|1 trt_timing_cache_enable|1 trt_dump_ep_context_model|1 trt_weightless_engine_enable|1' model.onnx
exe_no_builder_lib\onnxruntime_perf_test.exe -I -e tensorrt -r 5 -i 'trt_engine_cache_enable|1 trt_timing_cache_enable|1 trt_dump_ep_context_model|1 trt_weightless_engine_enable|1' model_ctx.onnx
```