Fix missing subgraph candidates for recompute (#19077)
### Fix missing subgraph candidates for recompute
For subgraphs for example `MatMul+Transpose+Reshape`, since the ending
node is a Reshape, in ORT, it is reusing input buffers.
Currently, the subgraph detection logic has defect, as a result, those
subgraphs will be missing as recompute candidates.
Also append a few more node types for recompute support.
TODO: add unit test later. This PR is needed for a customer model now.
