[VitisAI]Update VitisAI EP to be compatible with VitisAI 3.5 (#15673)
### Description
Originally VitisAI EP only works with old version of VitisAI release.
### Motivation and Context
Update VitisAI EP so that it works together with the current VitisiAI
3.5 and further version of VitisAI. We try our best to make it forward
compatible.
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Co-authored-by: Wang Chunye <chunywan@xilinx.com>
Co-authored-by: mingyue <mingyue@amd.com>
Co-authored-by: mingyueliuh <131847423+mingyueliuh@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: liumingyue <mingyue@xilinx.com>
Co-authored-by: moore-ch <129165652+moore-ch@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: shoucair <shoucai.ren@amd.com>
Co-authored-by: zz002 <zhenze.wang@amd.com>
Co-authored-by: BoarQing <yuz75@Pitt.edu>
Co-authored-by: Yueqing Zhang <yueqingz@amd.com>
Co-authored-by: Scott McKay <Scott.McKay@microsoft.com>