fix roctracer missing nccl operation bug (#14277)
### Description
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This change fixes a bug that when running ort with nccl collective
operation on AMD, it can't trace nccl operation.
### Motivation and Context
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The reason of missing nccl operation in roctracer is that roctracer is
using whitelist of which api can be traced, and nccl use
hipExtLaunchKernel api which is not included in the whitelist. This fix
is to add hipExtLaunchKernel into whitelist, then nccl operation could
be traced.