support latest deepspeed version for optim (#15682)
### Description
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support the latest deepspeed 0.9.1 for the next release
### Motivation and Context
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This will avoid the warn message `Skip modifying optimizer because of
unsupported DeepSpeed version`
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Co-authored-by: ruiren <ruiren@microsoft.com>
