Enable DML graph fusion independently of graph optimization level (#15172)
### Description
Apply the DML graph fusion transformer optimization independently of ORT
graph optimization level.
### Motivation and Context
The DML graph fusion transformer is not a graph optimizer in the normal
sense: it isn't optimizing the ONNX graph structure, but rather fusing
nodes into what will later become a single IDMLCompiledOperator (using
IDMLDevice1::CompileGraph). This transformer can't be done ahead of time
(hence why it's disabled if saving an optimized model), but it's also
gated by the ORT graph optimization level; this makes it impossible to
preoptimize ONNX models ("offline mode") and then later disable graph
optimizations for better startup performance ("online mode") while
benefiting from DML graph fusion.