Add a generic collection of session configurations to the SessionOptions (#4718)
* adding generic configurations for session options
* fix a build break on linux
* fix training ci build break
* fix training ci build break
* addressed CR comments
* fix traning ci build break
* move config_key from enum to string
* add c# api
* add python api
* fix build break
* move prepacking from 2 new api entries to session options configs
* fix traning ci build break
* add python test, update some comments, move const key definition to avoid build break
* addressed comments
* move definitions of keys to common.h
* move api to version 5
* remove accidental change in build.py
* remove pragma to avoid build break
* addressed CR comments
* fix the python build break, and move location of config keys definition
* small typo changes